Be The person You Want To Become
Before you can do something, first you must be something. Wolfgang von Goethe.
As a rule, people do not attract that which they want but rather that which they are. So it is, that when you stop concentrating on what you want to get and instead concentrate on you, only then will you get what you want.
To get what you want, you change who you are and you change who you are by changing the way you think and act. You simply decide to act as if you already are the person you want to become.