Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage. Anais Nin.
So much of your success is directly related to the amount of trust you have in yourself. Your perceptions are often far more accurate than you are sometimes willing to believe.
BELIEVE. The more you trust your intuition the more empowered you become, and the happier.
Doing what you feel in your gut what you feel you must do is never easy and it takes courage, but without it you can’t sustain the effort you need to make it all happen.
The future is called ‘perhaps’, which is the only thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to allow that to scare you. Tennessee Williams.
America’s future as leader of the free Western world is being called into question. The country desperately needs a new generation of altruistic leaders. The world is watching and hoping that the country will, once again, step up to the plate and do the right things that are so desperately needed. To take the route of man’s better angels rather than cling to what has past.
All that needs to be said has been said, all the thoughts expressed. There is much good work to be done.
Tomorrow night we shall see what we see…fingers crossed.
You never know how far you can go until you go for it. T.S. Eliot
We’re in the midst of a major societal shift. On nearly every front, our lives are being dominated by a tsunami of disrupting forces of information overload, fake news, encroaching data, artificial intelligence and biotechnology advances; unimaginable only a few short years ago. Distances have collapsed and our smartphones have made global villagers of us all.
And if this weren’t enough, there is the pandemic.
The times are demanding, to be sure, but in spite of the prevailing negative opinion of many, we will get through this period. It’s what humans do.
For the inquisitive, the curious, the imaginative and the courageous, a new order beckons, promising exciting advances in every field.
Even those at the top of their game are pausing, examining their options, looking for ways not just to do more but to be more. They are determined to live more authentically at a moment in time when authenticity, straight talk and truth are in short supply.
I’m reminded of the words of Saul Bellow, who wrote, “if you think that historical forces are sending everybody straight to hell you can either go resignedly with the procession or hold out, and hold not from pride or other personal motives, but from admiration and love for human abilities and powers which, without exaggeration, the words ‘miracle’ and ‘sublimity’ can be applied.”
We see life not as it is, but as we allow ourselves to see it. And if ever there was a time to take a fresh look at ‘everything,’ it’s now. Whether you are looking for new ways to improve your present condition or are, perhaps, in transition, one of hardest things in life is to know which new bridge to cross and which to burn down behind you. What makes the selection easier, though, is your level of enthusiasm and unfailing belief in yourself. Keep it going… while being the best version of yourself you can be.
Stay safe. Stay strong. Stay connected.
I hope to see you again soon.
Now that you’re here: Are you searchingfor the best way forward from here or are in transition? MY SIGNATURE AIM, when I work with my clients, is to help them get absolutely crystal clear about their direction and what they have to offer. If you feel that you could use my help at this point, let’s chat.Text/call 416.450.8867 or email drew@drewsimmie.com. I look forward to hearing from you.
Each man must look to himself to teach him the meaning of life. It is not something to be discovered. It is something molded. Antoine de Saint-Exupery
In our COVID-19, challenging world, many today are looking for purpose, something to latch on to, something that makes sense with what they’re doing in their daily lives, at home and in the work place.
But here’s the thing. Inherently, there is no purpose in our lives – we have to find it ourselves.
Very few of us are Mozarts. We’ve got to become explorers if we are to find our individual answers. Finding your purpose is not usually a one-off event. It’s a process of trial and error, a deeply personal inquiry that leads to a continual search until you find it, however long it may take. Everyone goes at their own speed. The timeline varies by individual.
But it’s important because meaning or purpose gives you courage. It fires up your imagination and fosters the energy you need to “get out there” every morning. To be the the best version of yourself you can be.
Regardless of what triggers the inquiry or wherever you happen to be on your journey, something happens to awaken your consciousness to the fact you realize that you are all caught up in a life that is no longer yours.
For any number of reasons, you find your experience, education and observation have started to converge, and life is suddenly coming together in a manner it never had before. You sense the need to take a fresh look at your life, to take stock about what you’re doing and who you are.
There’s no simple answer to this search. I wish I could say there is, but there isn’t.
It all starts with listening. In her book, In America, Susan Sontag wrote that “Each of us carries a room within ourselves, waiting to be furnished and peopled and, if you listen closely, you may need to silence everything in your own room, you can hear the sounds of that other room inside your head.
Seeking silence involves finding a place and time where you be quiet for a period of time and have a honest talk with your soul…. and ask yourself a number of serious questions: Start with these:
Am I being honest with myself about the direction of my life?
Am I proud of myself?
What value am I bringing – to my relationships, my work, and any other areas where I need to show up and contribute?
Am I living up to my full potential or sitting on my laurels?
Is what I’m doing right now moving me away from or towards my highest aspirations?
These are serious questions. Answering them will take an enormous amount of self-reflection, reading, thinking, journaling, watching videos, attending seminars, speaking with close friends, being willing to put down your old stories and look at life with fresh eyes, seeking professional help if need be. Whatever it takes…. however long it takes.
Connecting with yourself takes hard work, patience, humility and an unending belief in yourself.
No one but you can answer them, but over time, you’ll arrive at something that just feels right. When you find it, grab it! Run with it!
Finding meaning, living on purpose is a game changer. It isn’t for everybody but you’re not everybody. Keep believing in yourself. Trust yourself. Undoubtedly there will be some trying days. And it won’t always be easy, (nobody ever promised that) but when you do you’ll never look back and you’ll set yourself free.
Stay safe. Stay strong. Stay connected.
See you again soon.
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Obstacles are things that a person sees when he takes his eyes off the goal. Mahatma Gandhi
In our world of constant change, in spite of the seemingly endless list of challenges we all face daily, there remains a community of accomplished men and women who, regardless of where they currently are on their journey or their life situation, are not content to rest on their laurels.
Whatever life throws at them they bravely continue to reach out, looking for more. Saying yes when the majority says no.
Always up to the challenge, determined to stay relevant, they are willing to do the work, to be the very best of themselves and make sure they catch the next train before it pulls out of the station.
In the COVID-19 era, for some, that may mean sharpening their skills and stepping up their current game. For others, it could well involve reimagining themselves and setting out in a new direction.
The workplace is no longer the way it used to be. The very idea of work is changing. There is no safe middle ground.
Life is complicated. Living well doesn’t just happen. You need character, courage, alertness, determination and unwavering belief in yourself. Those attitudes and values have seen you through tough times before – and they will this time. too.
